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ABSTRAK
PROSES PENERIMAAN ORANG TUA TERHADAP ANAKNYA
YANG HAMIL DI LUAR NIKAH
(Sebuah studi kasus di kab.Poso)
Jane Mariem Monepa
NIM : 039114069
Universitas Sanata Dharma
Yogyakarta
2008
Konflik di kabupaten Poso telah menimbulkan dampak yang serius bagi
masyarakat Poso baik itu secara fisik maupun secara psikologis. Konflik juga
telah memberikan dampak yang negatif bagi kesehatan reproduksi perempuan
seperti meningkatnya kasus-kasus kehamilan di luar nikah. Tidaklah mudah bagi
orang tua untuk dapat menerima keadaan anaknya khususnya jika kehamilan itu
terjadi pasca terjadinya konflik. Oleh karena itu, penelitian ini bertujuan untuk
mengetahui bagaimana proses penerimaan orang tua terhadap anaknya yang hamil
di luar nikah setelah terjadinya konflik di kabupaten Poso.
Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kualitatif melalui wawancara dan
observasi. Data tersebut kemudian dianalisis dengan menggunakan teknik analisis
data kualitatif yaitu mengorganisasi data, koding, dan kategorisasi hasil/
interpretasi. Hasil penelitian ini kemudian menunjukkan bahwa proses
penerimaan orang tua paling banyak berada pada tahapan kemarahan berupa
perasaan dan tahapan penerimaan berupa pikiran dengan kesimpulan bahwa
banyaknya tahapan proses penerimaan serta lamanya proses penerimaan sangat
dipengaruhi oleh jenis kelamin, tipe kepribadian, pola asuh dan karakteristik
masyarakat.
Kata kunci:Konflik, Kehamilan di luar nikah, Proses penerimaan orang tua
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ABSTRACT
THE PROCESS OF PARENTS ACCEPTANCE OF THEIR DAUGHTERS
WHO WHERE PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIED
A Case Study in Poso
Jane Mariem Monepa
NIM : 039114069
Sanata Dharma University
Yogyakarta
2008
A conflict which was happened in Poso had emerged a serious impact for
its people, physically and psichologically. The conflict had also resulted
negatively for teenage girls in terms of their reproduction health, that is the
increasing of teenage pregnancy before married. It was not easy for parents to
accept such situation, especially when the pregnancy happened after the conflict.
Therefore, this reasearch was aimed to know how was the process of parents
acceptance of their daughters who were pregnant before married afer the conflict
in Poso.
The method used in this reasearch was qualitative method through
interview and observation. After that the data was analyzed by means of data
analysis technic. They were data organization,coding, and result categorization/
interpretation. The result revealed that most of the process of parents acceptance
were on the steps of anger in terms of feeling and step of acceptance in terms of
thoughts it was conducted that the number of steps in the process of acceptance
and also the period of the process of acceptance were influenced by gender,
personality type, the act of nursing, and also society characteristic.
Key word: conflict, pregnancy before married, the process of parents acceptance.
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